Writers and the Soul of a Painter

A few months ago I enjoyed a most unusual interview: I got to spend an hour with Tina Bohlman, a well-respected landscape artist in Waxahachie. Now, I had interviewed talented artists before — painters, filmmakers, musicians — but what made this visit unusual was that in a way, I also felt as if Tina was interviewing me. At least, she seemed to understand the writing process well enough to draw parallels between my work and hers.

As she spoke about her objectives as a painter, she compared them with those of a writer. (These are all connected and overlapping.)

1. Tina (and I) wish to convey emotion rather than a mere likeness. For her, that means taking time to absorb the atmosphere of a place vs. just snapping a photo and leaving. For me, it means going beyond a Q&A session, letting my subject talk as I pick up hints about what makes him / her tick. (As a beginner launching into fiction, I spend time with my “imaginary friends,” sorting out their strengths & weaknesses, needs & motivations.)
2. She (and I) want to present a story, not just a set of facts. Again, for Tina, a snapshot of, say, an abandoned commercial building won’t do. She wants to hint at things like: What kind of business was it? Who worked there? Why did it close? That’s what I like to do, get behind the subject’s featured activity and learn the heart of his / her story.
3. Tina talked about giving an intimate presentation vs. an objective, “behind-glass” look at a place’s shapes and colors. For me, again, that means learning and writing about who a person really is. Subjects sometimes call me a “reporter,” and that always surprises me because I see myself as introducing a new friend to the community, not really as gathering news.

Tina also saw how the process of learning to paint well mirrors that of learning to write well.

1. Learning to see what’s there. (Observation skills. We all need them.)
2. Learning to paint what you see. (As a writer, I started out with non-fiction, putting facts into words to practice the basics of communication.) Tina observed that just as I was taking written notes on our conversation so I could remember the details when the time came to write, she uses paint to take “color notes” on location so she can later render bricks, sky or plants accurately.
3. Learning to interpret what you see. (Even in non-fiction, you often have to go beyond relating actions and words to convey the drama in an argument, the tension during a moment of danger, the joy in a reunion.)
4. Learning to paint what works. For Tina, it’s about being flexible with the composition of a painting. She might paint that ugly air-conditioning unit as a shrub or barrel instead, or move things around to better convey the atmosphere of a place. Me? I also have to decide what to omit (I never bother describing my magazine subjects’ mundane activities or irrelevant comments). I also choose what to “plump up” by getting into my non-fiction people’s heads, adding details about the setting that they did not actually tell me (research helps here), or using dialogue where possible rather than just stating what happened.

Perhaps the reason I got so excited about this conversation is that Tina led me to see writing more as an art, like painting, than I had before. Now as I practice and improve upon my skills, I often remember the restful or forlorn or simply lovely scenes that Tina paints so well. It pleases me to think that, in my own way, I also have the soul of a painter.

You can read more about Tina in the magazine by clicking here.
After Dec. 31, you can use this link instead: Waxahachie NOW online.
The feature begins on .pdf page 38.

Thanks for reading,
Jan

PS: I’m linking up with my Soli Deo Gloria sisters this week.

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Post-Thanksgiving Leftovers, Anyone?

Are you just about turkeyed out? After hiding renegade bits of your Thanksgiving bird in sandwiches, dumplings and enchiladas, does the cache of leftover meat seem to be growing instead of shrinking? Are you ready for some sympathy instead of another new recipe? Well, Bruce Cameron feels your pain. With his permission as stated somewhere below, I reproduce his gripping essay (one of my favorites) as I received it from the humor email list Mikey’s Funnies.

Enjoy!
Thanks for reading,
Jan

TURKEY LEFTOVERS
By W. Bruce Cameron

Like many men, I am different from my wife in ways which are noticeable, and, in my opinion, fortunate.

Take the Thanksgiving turkey. (And I mean that literally. PLEASE come over to our house, open the refrigerator, shove aside everything growing green fuzz, and take this carcass away before it reincarnates as turkey lasagna or turkey tetracycline or whatever new concoction awaits the family.) But take Thanksgiving–my wife prefers small birds that fit nicely into the roasting pan and which can be cooked in a few hours.

“Ha!” I can be quoted as sneering. I trace my own gender lineage to that proud, hairy group of hunter-gatherers who, prior to the invention of TV remote control, would take their spears and go pull down a huge bison for dinner, stopping at the bar on the way home for a couple of cave brews. So when I go to the store for a turkey, I find a TURKEY: a Jurassic, many-pound fowl with drum sticks as large as my thighs and wings you could park a car under.

Words cannot describe the delight on my wife’s face when my neighbors help me carry the bird in to the refrigerator, where, following the instructions, it is left to thaw for a period of six months. (My wife often has several interesting but impractical suggestions on where else we might stick the turkey for this thawing procedure.) Cooking begins around Halloween, a slow roasting process which varies from my mother’s recipe in that there are no flames or threats of divorce “if anybody says a word about how the turkey tastes.”

I enjoy every step of turkey preparation, particularly since I am not involved in any of it. Well, that’s not entirely true–at one point, I am asked to reach into the mouth of the turkey and retrieve the giblets, which turns out to be a bag of what looks like pieces of Jimmy Hoffa. (I realize I am not, technically speaking, putting my hand in the bird’s “mouth,” but I’d rather not dwell on what this means.) How the turkey manages to swallow this stuff in the first place is beyond me. Traditionally, we open this bag, dump the contents into a pan of water, and boil the results. Only the cat is happy about this development.

As wonderful as this all is, by the fourth or fifth night my appetite for turkey variations has waned, and I provide valuable feedback to my wife by making gagging noises at dinner time. Her verbal (as opposed to projectile) response to this is to imply that it is somehow MY fault we have so many leftovers, to which I logically reply, “hey, YOU cooked it.”

Now, before you men out there become too smug with how adroitly I out maneuvered her with my quick retort, you should be advised that she STILL blames me for our turkey-induced bulimia. Therefore I appeal to my readership: has anyone else noticed bizarre psychiatric spousal reactions to turkey consumption which might explain this whole controversy? Please advise via return e-mail, which will be picked up by the crack WBC technical team and, judging by previous results, forwarded to the Governor of New Jersey.

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From The Cameron Column, a free Internet newsletter:
http://www.wbrucecameron.com/

Copyright W. Bruce Cameron 2005. Permission is granted to send this to others, with attribution, but not for commercial purposes.

Bruce is the author of these recommended books:

A Dog’s Purpose— http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0765326264/ref=nosim/mikeysfunnies-20

8 Simple Rules For Dating My Teenage Daughter— http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0761126333/ref=nosim/mikeysfunnies-20

8 Simple Rules for Marrying My Daughter: And Other Reasonable Advice from the Father of the Bride (Not that Anyone is Paying Attention)— http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1416558918/ref=nosim/mikeysfunnies-20

How to Remodel a Man: Tips and Techniques on Accomplishing Something You Know Is Impossible but Want to Try Anyway— http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/031233317X/ref=nosim/mikeysfunnies-20

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Glory and Guacamole

Note: This post is pretty much addressed to my Soli Deo Gloria friends, with whom I am linking up today–but of course, everyone is welcome to read it.

As some of you will recall, Jen posted not long ago that our Soli Deo Gloria group has been running for more than a year. I always enjoy linking up and seeing what my friends are up to. Invariably someone will post some encouragement and/or insight that seems to be just what I needed. And it’s fun to visit around and read what everyone’s kids are up to, or pick up a new recipe or decorating idea. Even sharing a burden of concern or grief is a blessing, as we pray for each other and lighten each other’s loads. And of course, Jen herself always seems to find enlightening connections between the everyday and the heavenly!

On a seemingly unrelated note, I have been a bit of a “road warrior” for some time now. Between trips to see dear ones at college or their current military post, and hitting the freeways to visit parents, I think nothing of putting in a 200-300-mile round trip in a day. My top one-day distance was 485 miles, which would have been perfectly tolerable in my own car. But I digress.

Some comment exchanges on my “What I Did on my Summer Vacation” series got me to thinking about Jen and the fact that she lives not only here in Texas, but well within my travel range. (If she lived in El Paso, Texas, it would be a different story. I mean, Dallas is closer to Birmingham, Alabama, three states away, than to El Paso.)

Opportunity soon arose. My daughter-in-law’s birthday was coming up. She is on her own while my son is stationed overseas, and she lives just an hour-ish away from Jen. How could I turn down a two-fer like that? A dozen emails later, our plans were set. I would drive to Jen’s, take her to lunch, and then proceed to Heather’s to share her birthday with her and some friends. “GypsE ROSE,” my nav system, got me to Jen’s house in good time — and with no arguments for a change.

Have you ever met an online friend in person for the first time, and just had to greet them with a big hug? You know a strong bond has developed there. Jen and I both love the Lord Jesus and love writing. That bond, our mutual trust and love for Christ, simply made any differences — age, denominational background, temperament — irrelevant. (Jen’s house is neat and tidy, but I won’t hold that against her either.)

Another bond became apparent as we sat in a delightful Tex-Mex cafe. Selecting our food, we both maneuvered so as to have guacamole with our meals. Oh yeah — soul sisters!

Then as we talked at length about Christs’ leading in our lives, we also found a dream in common. We had both been considering the same rather audacious undertaking, which I believe Jen herself would like to share with you. So be sure to visit her this week — it’s really exciting to see God lead!

I can eat my weight in this stuff...

Photo from Simplyrecipes.com

I am thrilled about how God has used the Internet to bring me so many opportunities to build my faith and grow relationships with other people. Getting to meet Jen in person is definitely the icing on the cake. Or, the guacamole on the enchilada plate.

Thanks for reading,
Jan

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I’m Reading “A Confident Heart”

Hi, everyone!

Here's the book... I bet it will encourage you!I am currently participating in one of my friend Ashley’s “ad hoc” Book Clubs. Together we are reading A Confident Heart by Renee Swope. Now, this isn’t a book review (though I’ll publish one when I finish), but I wanted to tell you about the light-bulb moment I had this morning while reading Chapter 5.

In Chapter 1 Swope writes about getting ready for a speaking engagement for which she felt inadequate. She turned from the mirror and noticed her oversized shadow on the wall. The shadow seemed to symbolize her doubt. Then she realized that as long as she was facing the light (symbolizing the truth of God’s promises to lead and enable her),  the shadow would not trouble her — she would not even see it.

So this morning I started in on Chapter 5. Recalling that day and her shadow, Swope writes, “…I realized I had created the shadow by blocking the light” (p. 85, emphasis mine). She compares focusing on our insecurities with “…cast[ing] a shadow of doubt in our minds by blocking the light of God’s truth in our hearts” (p. 86).

Here’s the clincher, in the next paragraph: “We were not designed to block the light or to be the light” (p. 86).  Oh. Well, I thought. True, but then what are we do with the light of God’s truth? Resorting as usual to imagery, I tried to picture something that reflects light but does not block it.

A second later, I had it–Glass! A glass window is both reflective and transparent, and that is how I want to be with God and his truth. I want to reflect his grace and his loving nature. At the same time, I want to remain transparent about my own shortcomings and how God keeps working to bring me toward maturity. I don’t want my behavior or attitude to block others from seeing the Light.

As near as I can figure, “thinking about his strength rather than my weakness” (p. 87) will keep my confidence high. “Self” confidence can only let me down, like trying to dock a boat by tying the rope to its own mast. Instead, I need to “tie” my confidence to the One who is solid and secure.

Thanks for reading,
Jan

PS: I am also linking up with Rachel Anne and my Company Girls friends today.

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My New Old Friend

I’m linking up with the Soli Deo Gloria sisters, celebrating one year of virtual togetherness.

Greetings, everyone!

Back in the summer I received an assignment from the magazine, to interview a particular Waxahachie resident and write up her story. The only specifics that the editor included with her contact information were:

A basic profile piece on a 90-year-old with stories to tell. Her greatest blessings are the people she’s met along the way and the many miracles in her own life.

Well, the assignment may have been “basic” or ordinary, but Mrs. Davison is not. We spent more than two hours together and I enjoyed every minute. She told me one fond memory after another, each more intriguing or astonishing than the last.

Between her family’s connections during her childhood and, later, her husband’s distinguished military and diplomatic career, she got to meet quite a few well-known people. Besides her optimistic faith, one thing I like best about Mrs. Davison is her willingness to learn from everyone she meets.

You can read her story in the November issue of Waxahachie NOW by clicking here. (The feature begins on .pdf page 38.)

I hope you enjoy getting acquainted with Mrs. Davison as much as I have.

Thanks for reading,
Jan

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Through the Looking Glass and Into the Intergalactic Quiltapalooza

Disclaimer: I blatantly stole the word “Quiltapalooza” from my friend Dan, whose lovely wife Cindy has often attended the festival described below.

It’s just a good thing I was not driving. Not only were the unfamiliar Houston streets interrupted by one construction zone after another, but when we finally came in sight of the George R. Brown Convention Center, its very appearance would have hopelessly distracted my attention from the task of navigating the car around. Honestly, the building looks for all the world like a waterline model of some outsize cruise ship, bendy red smokestacks and all.

Jeannine, my wonderful mother-in-law hereinafter referred to as “Mom,” pulled into the valet parking lane. While we waited to inch forward toward the valets, Mom’s friend Margaret got out to buy the tickets. Twenty minutes later, we stepped through one of the red doors and into Houston’s annual International Quilt Festival.

I felt sort of like Alice after she ate the wafer that made her shrink. I could see about half a mile in each direction, every inch filled with booths, quilts, people, Hoverounds, quilts, fabrics, more people, lights, noise, and, um, quilts. “Yike,” was my profound observation. Mom and Margaret, the veterans, laughed at the novice and we all made sure we had each other’s phone numbers saved and handy. I resisted the faint urge to hang onto Mom’s hand.

We cruised the booths, looking at kits, fabric, jewelry, quilter’s tools, picture frames, and clothing. We had to dodge little clusters of women, a few patient husbands, and the occasional Hoveround. Mom bought a few supplies but I held off until I had a chance to see a little of everything.

When the noise and congestion got a bit oppressive, we escaped to the relatively quiet exhibit hall. There the quilts from the competition hung on curtain after curtain of black fabric. The top quilts had won prizes, I heard, ranging from $5000 to $15,000. Traditional, artsy, abstract, photorealistic — they had it all, and from all over the world. Many were tagged “No photographs” but I got a few sample shots of those that were not camera-shy.

I was a little dazed by the time we walked into the food court for lunch. “Healthy food, healthy food, healthy food,” I told myself… and promptly pounced on a hot dog with sauerkraut. We had not seen Margaret for some time, and it was hard to hear our phones in all the racket. She soon joined us, though, and we compared loot, only I didn’t have any yet except for a freebie shopping bag, still empty.

After lunch I shopped almost like a veteran myself, picking up a few goodies for loved ones, which I can’t divulge here because they might see it. Trying to see over all the crowds and chaos, I was reminded more than ever of Alice. With apologies to Lewis Carroll…

The novice and the veteran
were walking tall on stilts.
Without them, they could not have seen
the quantities of quilts.
“If we bought all of these,” they said,
“we’d be o’ercome with guilt!”

Okay, I only wished we had stilts.

In short, we walked for miles and had lots of fun. The day was bigger than I could have imagined, and so was the Intergalactic Quiltapalooza.

Thanks for reading,
Jan
PS: This week I am linking with Jen and the Soli Deo Gloria girls. Join us?

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